need resume!!!

:? hey anyone.....ive been tryin to resume my downloads...ive tried the advice given for global que,...and left pc runnin for 2 days and the global que did not start..is there anyway in the options in smart i can can auto enable resume of downloads with out global que????? for some reason my 1 meg connection keeps resetting its self when using smart....never happens with any other online things,,ever..only on here..so i have to manualy reconnect to my mates server an restart any files it didnt get..its driving me mad and am startin to think its a waste of time...i know he resumes his downloads but he does remember how..please any help would be greatly appreciated..cheers..Andy